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Harville Hendrix • Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Second Edition
Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage: Unlocking the Secrets to Life, Love and Marriage
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After marriage, we revert to being the people we were before we “fell in love.” Our actions are influenced by the model of our parents; our own personality; our perceptions of love; our emotions, needs, and desires.
Gary Chapman • The 5 Love Languages
In the strongest marriages, husband and wife share a deep sense of meaning. They don’t just “get along”—they also support each other’s hopes and aspirations and build a sense of purpose into their lives together. That is really what I mean when I talk about honoring and respecting each other. Very often a marriage’s failure to do this is what cause
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Adam Smith • Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands: Why your marriage is hurting, and how to blossom as a couple
Later in life, when you have a conflict with your partner, the intensity of your response can be amplified by this hidden pathway.
Helen LaKelly Hunt • Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition

When decent people with compatible values spend a life together and build something that is good and greater than themselves, they usually wind up loving one another deeply and enhancing each other’s sense of safety, contentment, and trust.
Sarah Bennett • F*ck Love: One Shrink's Sensible Advice for Finding a Lasting Relationship
This misalignment characterizes the relationship more than accessibility, responsiveness, and engagement, which are the elements needed to sustain a loving union. The critical question “Are you there for me?” that holds couples together over time is answered more often than not with a vague and somewhat distracted “Not really.” Usually the eating a
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