The Art of Seduction

I think about who I’m most drawn to, and it’s always been those that exude intensity. People with a unique ability to get  consumed  by something. Maybe that’s some flaw in my system—to be drawn to intense, obsessive people—or maybe I am predisposed to noticing outliers. Because pretty much every outlier is obsessive, whether we’d like t

You Create the Tension, and You Push It Away “Baby, we’ve got to slow this down. . . .” Some people think that it’s the man’s job to escalate and the woman’s job is to resist. Instead, think of it as the man’s job to do both. If you are constantly trying to get more kino, like gaining yards on a football field, it telegraphs far too much interest a

Play a bigger, bolder game. Find a way to give sensation to others in exactly the way that you really want to give it to them. Let them feel your importance and significance in a manner that delights both you and them. Make it into a fine art. Consider the idea that all the best artists and the most inspiring leaders are masters of torture. They to

Breadcrumbs are leading the witness. She has to make a connection to understand what you are. Prompting imagination requires that she is curious about what you are. If you tell her what you are, you remove the discovery process.