Sublime

consent, self-discovery and self-awareness, communication, honesty, boundaries, trust, fidelity, and commitment.

If the MEM is still “just dating,” he can use the Relationship Plan (and his left brain) to help him maintain awareness as he dates.

Dr. Sue Johnson, the founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) has demonstrated through her clinical work and writings that creating true security in the relationship and recognizing that you are emotionally dependent on your partner on every level is the best way to improve your romantic bond.

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You’re researching your own experience of sex. What do you like? What could you do without? What did you feel in your body? What were you thinking about? Something about approaching sex as research lightens up the experience and makes it less capital “S” serious.

Beyond Neil Strauss’ book above, notable reads are: ‘The Rational Male’ book series by Rollo Tomassi, which covers the mindset and psychology behind Game. ‘The Mystery Method’, by Mystery. ‘The Art of Seduction’, by Robert Greene.

As the therapist charged to help the pair move back into closeness, I usually make a determination whether the primary problem is the character of the cheater or the state of their union or both. It

Underlying all of these many different ways to be a healthy sexual being are 15 ‘domains’ of healthy sexual development, identified in 2010 by a group of researchers across a range of academic disciplines – child psychology, early childhood, a legal expert in children’s rights, a specialist in sexuality education, experts on sexual socialisation, a