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creating a fulfilling love relationship is hard work.

You take responsibility for communicating your needs and desires to your partner.

something unexpected occurs—the relationship itself becomes the center.

For some reason, we enter marriage with the expectation that our partners will magically restore this feeling of wholeness. It is as if they

FOR THE SAKE of clarity, I would like to reduce the discussion in these first five chapters to its simplest form. First of all, we choose our partners for two basic reasons: (1) they have both the

Experience has taught me that the most effective form of therapy is one that combines both schools of thought.

were to change some of his more limiting behaviors and his beliefs, he would become more fully the person