Sublime

spent most effectively when the Nice Guy can observe his tendency to distract himself with addictive patterns, such as keeping busy, or using sex, food, or alcohol to medicate.

The Relationship Cure,

In order to avoid falling into the friend zone, you have to be willing to get to rejection as quickly as possible. To do this, you have to step up and be bold. You do this by setting the tone and taking the lead.

Because of your SLBs, you probably date down and settle for women you don’t enjoy or who don’t turn you on. Your SLBs have probably caused you to stay in bad or unfulfilling relationships way too long because you don’t think there are many good women out there. And, even if there are good women out there, you don’t believe you could ever get one. Y

For the rest of the session, I shared with him the importance of making his needs a priority and taking responsibility for finding ways to meet them.

realized I needed to create a more interesting life FOR ME! So, I set out to create a passionate, active, fulfilled, interesting, growing, and happy life. I was right. The better my life has become, the better the women have become. And, the better my life has become, the less I’ve had to work at attracting the kind of women I want.

He’s a Passive Aggressive and wants you to chase him. If you do talk to him, he’ll end up giving you his business card and asking you to call him. He’s not worth your time.