
Urban Tantra, Second Edition: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century

There is no call to perform and no requirement to reassure her stroker that he’s doing it right through auditory or visual cues. All she’s doing is feeling. For her, this can be a freeing experience.
Nicole Daedone • Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm
For them sexual communion is far from dirty, but rather a sacred melding that puts us in touch with the divine. Erotic intimacy is the revelation of our memories, wishes, fears, expectations, and struggles within a sexual relationship.
Esther Perel • Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
If you are the masculine partner, practice the heart-precision of conscious feeling, touching without grasping, tasting without drooling. Like a surfer on a wave, without sticking in one place too long, feel every nuance of your lover’s energy, her breath, her movements, her shivers, tensions, and whispers—and lovingly take her to the beach of open
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When in doubt, start with the stroke. What are you feeling in your finger as you stroke? Does your finger feel warm or cool? Dense or feather-light? Does it seem to be rising or falling? Then, pull back the lens until you are able to ask the same questions of your body as a whole. What is happening in your back, your neck, your heart? Do you feel a
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