The Path Between Us: An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships
Though you may not pick up on it at first, the more you pressure a Nine to make a decision or do something the more they quietly dig their heels in and resist.
Suzanne Stabile • The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
When we are disconnected from an authentic sense of self, each type slams into a powerful impeding emotion, one they share in common with the other two types in their center. Riso and Hudson refer to this as each center’s dominant emotion. The enneagram invites us into further exploration of our dominant impeding emotion and its excessive qualities
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Nines typically don’t just meet others halfway, they lose the ability to access what their positions are and give in to others completely—often without anyone knowing they’ve done it. While Nines often help others to find compromises, they
Beatrice Chestnut • The Complete Enneagram: 27 Paths to Greater Self-Knowledge
People who want to help a Nine should realize how important it is not to rob them of whatever choice they do make. I’m not as big a fan of Thai food as Anne is, so halfway to the restaurant I might think, Anne probably doesn’t care one way or another where we go for dinner, whereas I really want Chinese. If I tell her I want to go to Jolly Panda sh
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