
The Object of My Affection Is in My Reflection: Coping with Narcissists

To the detached persons reading this book: Recognize that you have been the terrible partner. Through your fear and obsessive love you have robbed your spouse of the ability to feel trusted, to feel confident, or to feel secure.
Adam Smith • Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands: Why your marriage is hurting, and how to blossom as a couple
The more we overcome our need to be excessive caretakers, the less we will find ourselves attracted to people who need to be constantly taken care of.
Melody Beattie • The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series)

Gaslighting: How to Avoid a Narcissist's Mind Control and Heal from Narcissistic Abuse
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