The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
Elaine N. Aron Phdamazon.com
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
Does he deal with problems head-on, or does he deny them? When troubled, does he become talkative or aloof? Which do you prefer? How do you want to be treated? Tenderly, or do you like it a little rough every now and then? Does he listen to you sympathetically, or does he race ahead to what he thinks is the solution? Do you like to be nurtured when
... See moreIn romantic relationships, rigid-patterned people typically want to improve both the relationship and the partner/spouse. In fact, they see helping the other improve as an act of love, since this is how love was expressed to them in childhood.
need you to accept—often and readily—the possibility that you might be at fault, without this feeling to you like the end of the world. You have to allow that I can have a legitimate criticism and still love you. I need you to be undefensive. I need you to own up to what you are embarrassed or awkward about in yourself. I need you to know how to ac
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