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The Autonomy of Monogamy
Marriage is a condition of being, not doing.
Ada Calhoun • Wedding Toasts I'll Never Give
The first marriage stands alone in the human imagination as one of the great primary commitments of an individual life. But it is also a metaphor for all the other commitments we must make, and its spoken vows are a representation of all the unspoken promises we make, especially with those other two, equally untamable marriages, with our work and w
... See moreDavid Whyte • The Three Marriages: Reimagining Work, Self and Relationship
you have to have a big reason to care about your life in its totality. Constructing the good life is an individual affair. Personal peace is not delivered via prescription. For me, marriage was this focusing event. For you, it can be anything. What really matters is that you are willing to do the hard work of being more.