You can breeze up the steps in your rush to get to the big O, but lingering in arousal has big benefits—the longer you hang out, the more charge you build up, and the bigger your orgasmic waves can be.

This explosion of gifting could be the basis of your life, not just a moment of sexual yielding. When you feel sexual lust or desire for any woman, breathe deeply and allow the feeling of desire to magnify. And allow it to magnify more. Don’t let the energy become lodged in your head or genitals, but circulate it throughout your body. Using your br

“Doing” really begins with seducing and romancing a person’s mind. Before touching someone’s body, you have to touch his or her mind. If you are not able to do that, you will never be able to give your lover that special pleasure, no matter how well you can touch. Doing someone’s mind really begins with focusing your total attention on that person.

In other words, whatever you are feeling, feel it fully, and then feel through and beyond it, so that sex becomes a constant feeling through and beyond every sensation, rather than focusing on any particular sensation.