
Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm

SOLO & PARTNER PLAY Connecting Solo Sex and Love START YOUR EROTIC SESSION by cupping your genitals in one hand and placing the other on your heart. Breathe into your hands, heart and sexy bits. Visualize a circuit or river of light filled with love energy and sex energy. Say or think affirmations and positive intentions. During your solo-sex p
... See moreSheri Winston • Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play & Practice
Touch her only once and withdraw. Take your time before doing any regular stroking. We have found that instead of a stroke, a gentle pressing against the clitoris causes less fear and anxiety.
Steve Bodansky • Extended Massive Orgasm, Updated and Illustrated: How you can give and receive intense sexual pleasure (Positively Sexual)
Make your first lick a slow and tender “ice cream” lick from bottom to top. Make it long and lasting. Take it all in.
Ian Kerner • She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)
The best orgasms are produced, however, by uncomplicated, simple, and repeated strokes. If you feel that you have to get fancy and complicate your stroking, that is probably due to your partner’s lack of feeling. If you realize instead that the only time that exists is the present, you’ll keep your attention on what’s happening now.