Romance plot
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Romance plot
When babies’ natural outreach toward their caregivers goes unmet, they also develop a felt sense, which is the feelings, sensations, and a bodily knowing that there is something wrong with them.
Jessica Baum • Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
Attachment research indicates that when a child defies the instinctive urge to want to attach to his or her mother, it is because the mother has been perceived in some important way as unavailable. My basic thesis is that children turn away from Mother out of disappointment and hurt and in self-defense. They turn away because it hurts too much to t
... See moreJasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
2) obsessive preoccupation with the love object
It involves compulsive daydreaming about the limerent object
It's predicted on uncertainty; when you are sure of reciprocation, it naturally disappears over time
Substack • The Agony of Eros: On Limerence - By Ava - Bookbear Express
By the time Chris reached dating age he was starving for affection and latched onto the most damaged girl at his school who verbally and psychologically abused him. When she cheated on him, Chris rationalized her behavior as his own fault and worked harder to earn her approval.