On the Crisis of Men | The Point Magazine
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On the Crisis of Men | The Point Magazine
“You are entering into a tradition of manhood, or personhood, in this troubled world,” Hershey said. “You are taking a full responsibility for the Torah and its laws, and you are responsible not just for perpetuating Judaism but for making sure that there are still Jews in the world. On this day, we ask of you that you build a Jewish home, that you
... See moreThis is followed by a leisurely twenty-minute shower, a late breakfast, a long nap, and then a meandering perusal through a variety of periodicals. Meanwhile, I am ferrying our daughter to birthday parties and playdates. On weekend evenings, Tom doesn’t check with me before he meets friends for drinks; he just breezes out the door with the assumpti
... See morethe past 60 years feminization has built in the perfect Catch 22 social convention for anything masculine; The expectation to assume the responsibilities of being a man (Man Up) while at the same time denigrating asserting masculinity as a positive (Shut Up). Whatever aspect of maleness that serves the feminine purpose is a man’s masculine responsi
... See moreThe MEM caretaker “wakes up” in middle life to discover he has an overwhelming sense of deprivation. He is torn in his unconscious with two unresolved needs: to be cared for and to become himself. He now feels trapped in his caretaker role. He has lost the life he really wanted, the one driven by his own desire, the one energized from his soul rath
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