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Looking for Alice
Most of us have no idea what kind of partner will fulfill us long term.
Logan Ury • How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
the latent benefit of “friend dating” over coffee is that even if there’s no chemistry, you might end up with a good friend. This means that rather than treating dates as “marriage interviews,” you can enjoy yourself, value the person on the other side of the table for whoever they might be, and potentially allow them into your life based on whiche
... See moreColin Wright • Some Thoughts About Relationships
Go on dates with people whom you don’t necessarily think are a fit. That’s the only way you can figure out what you actually like rather than assuming you already know.
Logan Ury • How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
Similarly, I think people need to ask themselves – and it might be easier if we ask each other – What do you really want to be doing? How did you fall in love in the first place? People start optimizing for things like “hm, if I did this I would get 5% more traffic” or “I would get to the next follower milestone” I think because it’s visible, and i... See more