
Fidelity: How to Create a Loving Relationship That Lasts

Enlightenment can only be embodied in the world by people who love one another. So relationships are not about how two people can survive each other but about how the whole world becomes more capable of love, with all its dim anguish and glowing rapture. The work and practice I recommend here are not aimed at making your life together smoother but
... See moreDavid Richo • How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
True love doesn’t foster suffering or attachment. On the contrary, it brings well-being to ourselves and to others. True love is generated from within. For true love to be there, you need to feel complete in yourself, not needing something from outside.
Jason DeAntonis • How to Love (Mindful Essentials)
you and your beloved did not believe that your lives were finite, neither one of you could take your lives to be at stake and there would be no urgency to do anything with your time. You could never care for yourselves, for one another, or for the commitment that you share, since you would have no sense of fragility. By the same token, you could fe
... See moreMartin Hägglund • This Life: Secular Faith and Spiritual Freedom
