crushes are often just misplaced ambition
The specifics of what we find ‘beautiful’ and what we find ‘sexy’ are indications of what we most deeply crave in order to rebalance ourselves.
The School of Life • How To Think More About Sex (School of Life)
If you really want to create a soulmate experience, it’s essential to examine the reasons why you are in a relationship or are looking for one. It can be revealing to write down exactly what you hope to get from a relationship. Once you’ve made your list, review it to see if there are any indications of things you believe you need from a partner or
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If the attraction is shallow, one of the two of you will disappear. If the attraction is deep, you will look at each other through a soft-focus lens and believe everything is perfect.
Lisa Johnson Mandell • Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
Most things people do are in an effort to “earn” love. Many desires, dreams, and ambitions are built out of a space of severe lack.