
crushes are often just misplaced ambition

Crushes are often just misplaced ambition.
Ava • How to Avoid Half-Heartedness
Your aspirations show up in your admiration.
Danielle LaPorte • The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful + Practical Guide to Creating Success on Your Own Terms
I know that limerence can be misleading. It can be the beginning of a good relationship, or a complete disaster. If someone feels like the answer to the question of your life, you might want to address the fundamental sense of lack that they are triggering.
Sasha Chapin • 50 Things I Know
What are you excessively curious about — curious to a degree that would bore most other people? That's what you're looking for.