wendy b carvalho
@wendy
wendy b carvalho
@wendy
Focus on mutuality rather than reciprocity. It not a 1:1 as we have different capacities and different things to offer. There’s an alchemy in figuring out how mutuality will work.
Resentment is information for you that a boundary has been crossed
-Mia Birdsong
Instead of looking at the other person, you should be reflecting on where/how you crossed your own boundaries.
Now I’m trying really hard to slow down. Pay complete attention. Lately I’ve internalized there’s something so sacred about focus, rather than constantly deliberating between monitor screens and plans and side hustles. Depth rather than breadth. In a world that is increasingly accelerating — social media eyeballs and immediate gratification and a p
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