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By supporting her need to be heard she could support his need to be free.
John Gray • Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex

If the MEM is still “just dating,” he can use the Relationship Plan (and his left brain) to help him maintain awareness as he dates.
Kenneth M. Adams • When He's Married to Mom: How to Help Mother-Enmeshed Men Open Their Hearts to True Love and Commitment

we see ourselves as responsible for our own happiness and others as responsible for their own. When we take our stance as an adult in our relationships, we stop treating our wives as if they’re our mothers or some little girl who needs to be rescued. When we take our stance as an adult in the world, we see others as peers, as partners, as people wh
... See moreTripp Lanier • This Book Will Make You Dangerous: The Irreverent Guide For Men Who Refuse to Settle
“Power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic.”
Joel Manby • Love Works: Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders
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Gary Chapman • The 5 Love Languages
Ask your spouse for a list of five activities that he would enjoy doing with you—don’t assume you know.
Gary Chapman • The 5 Love Languages
A damaged man is incapable of love because he does not believe love will be freely given, only earned through works. He seeks false intimacy in lust and mistakes sex for acceptance.