Sublime

Maria Popova, who writes the popular site The Marginalian (formerly Brain Pickings), spends her days reading old books and essays. She’s passionate about finding ideas, beauty, and wisdom in these texts and then connecting them in her own unique conversation with the world.

Eroticism is one of the few forms of play permitted to adults. It occurs in a world parallel to the habitual one; it frees us to adopt new personas; it has a tendency to generate enduring communities whose members are "apart together" even when its excesses have come to an end; and, finally, it is dispensable and therefore indispensable.

Since you have an energetic and anatomical inner channel running from top to bottom, and what happens at one end is linked to what’s happening at the other, you can use your breathing to open either end. Breathing through a loose open mouth and throat can fire up your southern regions and be a natural aphrodisiac.