Matthew Thompson

I sign off my emails now with, “You’re awesome, and you’re doing great.” I think that’s a mantra for my life, which is having a good sense of self-belief, and even when things are going badly, I’m probably doing the best I can. You can’t always control the circumstances or how things play out. You can only commit to the process.

(The first) question is “What’s your mind?” The last question is “What was most useful and most valuable?” The other one is “What’s the real challenge here for you?” It’s almost an identity element. It helps people figure out the real challenge rather than be the person who has the ideas. That’s actually a much rarer, more useful skill in most orga

Curiosity unlocks insight about the situation and yourself. Curiosity helps people feel seen, understood and encouraged. If you lead with curiosity, it’s a more powerful place to lead from most of the time.

Everyone has ideas, but ideas are cheap and easy. Knowing the real problem is rare and precious and strategic. If you’re in an organizational setting, if you want to be seen as different and valuable, be the person who’s going, “What’s the problem? What are we really trying to solve here?”

The reason Riley has his incredible resume is that he understands leaders don’t need a resume or banners. They need: 1. Honesty without fear of confrontation. 2. Be direct, don’t pull punches, but don’t act in anger. 3. Set the standard, become the standard. 4. Don’t play favorites. 5. Remain confident with a sense of humility. 6. Blame no one. 7.

One of the most intelligent case studies in design is the Chinese tea cup. They’re made without handles simply because if it’s too hot to touch, it’s too hot to drink.

Humans naturally want to add more. Add a cardboard sleeve, add a warning on the outside of the cup, add a handle. The result of all these things never cools down the actual contents.

You have to bet on yourself and how you're different to make it work," he said.

Actually, what’s really powerful is to give people responsibility for their own freedom. There’s this paradoxical way of showing love.

Happiness is not about getting all you want. It's about enjoying all you have. You are rich when you are content and happy with what you have.