Self & Transformation
Perfectionism holds us back from showing up and trying, or really doing the important work of our lives. This happens because when we are afraid of failing, or feeling vulnerable, or not being as good as we want others to think we are, we end up avoiding the work that is required to actually become that good.
Brianna Wiest • The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery
interesting consequence of this is that adhd might just mean you have a body with more fragments of the computation in it, distributed across society. you are responsible for their integration. suggests the answer would involve an idiosyncratic path
MAGE THE COURAGEOUS {𝟘}x.comForms of life, forms of mind | Dr. Michael Levin | What advice do I give to my students?
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ei. dont share all that u think; when interviewing w someone in gatekeeper position, present clear linear story w narrower focus
unite divergent streams of thought
find a mentor series
Types of Fundamental Wellbeing: Locations – Nonsymbolic
nonsymbolic.org
Frontiers | Narrative as active inference: an integrative account of cognitive and social functions in adaptation
frontiersin.org
the person who cannot hear their inner signals anymore “guides himself by clocks, rules, calendars, schedules, agenda, and by hints and cues from other people” https://t.co/qtJTq6zglc
from: the farther reaches of human nature
Another barrier to change is perfectionism’s demand for certainty before action. Because perfectionism says you need to know that your goal is correct before you spend any time or energy on it, you can get stuck spending weeks and months trying to figure out if your goal is worth pursuing in the first place. The issue with making certainty a prereq
... See moreClarissa W. Ong • The Anxious Perfectionist
the purpose of this work is to raise a man’s conscious awareness
so he becomes aware of his capacity for love, intimacy, and sexuality
and open to all these things
bc from this place, he has the capacity to cherish & awaken female sexuality
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the most powerful thing a man can do is gift women his unconditional love - show that they are safe & sacred, that they can show up in their fullness & be loved. (also, power, clarity, desire, and decisiveness stems from the groin/root chakra)