Relationships and Self
Bees don't waste their time explaining to flies that honey is better than shit
Sometimes your friends don’t consider themselves as close to you as you do to them
if everyone hates you it's time to sleep, if you hate everyone it's time to eat, and if you hate yourself it's time to shower !!
"If we want the rewards of being loved we have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of being known"
someone taking the time to explain how they are feeling hurt as a result of our actions means they value our presence in their life. they’re giving us a chance to show up in a way that is comfortable for both parties. when people stop explaining to us how they feel, they’ll exit.
I don’t think people treat you how they feel about you. I believe people treat you depending on how they feel about themselves.
the ideal amount of delusion is non-zero
Nobody is obligated to do anything for you. But that’s the point of community and friendship. You do things out of love, out of necessity, and out of just selflessness.