Your Phone Is Why You Don't Feel Sexy

Our technologically driven, constantly connected culture reinforces this disruption of our pleasure system.

A healthy sense of erotic entitlement is built on a relaxed, generous, and unencumbered attitude toward the pleasures of the body—something our puritan culture continues to grapple with.

The most urgent problems we face with sex seldom have anything to do with technique.

look down at my phone and wonder if it isn’t its own kind of sensory-deprivation chamber. That tiny, glowing world of metrics cannot compare to this one, which speaks to me instead in breezes, light and shadow, and the unruly, indescribable detail of the real.