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Opinion | Your Most Ambivalent Relationships Are the Most Toxic
L’homme très dépendant aura quelques relations, mais uniquement avec des femmes à problèmes qui seront elles-mêmes dépendantes. Les deux partenaires vont donc constamment chercher l’approbation de l’autre. Généralement, l’un d’eux fera souvent des scènes ou des crises que l’autre tentera inlassablement de calmer. Cette relation toxique risque d’abî
... See moreMark Manson • L'art subtil de séduire: Attirer les femmes avec honnêteté (EYROLLES) (French Edition)
Relationships die in one of two ways – by gradually fading out or by cataclysmic collapse.
Robin Dunbar • Friends: Understanding the Power of our Most Important Relationships
they assume the worst about each other to such a pervasive degree that they become trapped in an absorbing state of negativity that I call the Roach Motel for Lovers. This horrible place is marked by endless conflict and bad feelings. Couples “check in” to it and then discover they can’t get out. When couples become trapped in the Roach Motel, they
... See moreJohn Gottman • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
They are the one who suffer our irritability, gloom, manufactured cheerfulness or our defensive rationalisations. We act unfairly, so they back off and keep a distance. We grow isolated and friendless.