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Opinion | Your Most Ambivalent Relationships Are the Most Toxic
Passive boundaries, such as withdrawal, triangulation, pouting, affairs, and passive-aggressive behavior, are extremely destructive to a relationship.
John Townsend • Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No: When to Say Yes, When to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life
I know that limerence can be misleading. It can be the beginning of a good relationship, or a complete disaster. If someone feels like the answer to the question of your life, you might want to address the fundamental sense of lack that they are triggering.
Sasha Chapin • 50 Things I Know
become a nuisance – forever knocking on your door or ringing you up, constantly bemoaning the miseries of their lives. In the end, you crack and go out of your way to avoid them.