Judging people for conformity shows your lack of compassion and gives it away that you were just like them not too long ago.
We're only really bothered by people who remind us of our recent selves. Just like teenagers can't stand kids and teenagers appear cringe to adults.
Vivid Voidx.comJudging people for conformity shows your lack of compassion and gives it away that you were just like them not too long ago. We're only really bothered by people who remind us of our recent selves. Just like teenagers can't stand kids and teenagers appear cringe to adults.
so this projections thing
that itself has the prereq of being able to notice when you have judgements
judgements are a reflection of what we fear in ourselves
we judge somebody when we don’t want to be like that — when we wouldn’t accept ourselves with that trait
ɐʇǝɯ-Luliex.comWhen someone you know is successful, your immediate response it to pick out their faults rather than express admiration or acknowledgement.
Brianna Wiest • 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
An irrational and unproductive obsession with what other people think of us.
end meta • Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think (Taming the Mammoth)
Day to day, they’re more likely to simply criticize you as they attempt to reshape you to fit their ideal image of a spouse, child, friend, etc. What you’re hearing is their inner critic attempting to improve you, just as it does to them all day long. You’re being treated to a dose of their own inner hell. Try