

“A life that looks good is not the same thing as a life that feels good” + the best take I’ve seen yet on the ayahuasca discourse https://t.co/DkUyoKhZ0F
Do all artists have to suffer? Part of me resists when I ask the question. I don’t want the answer to be yes. But I let go, and the answer, instead, is of a different sort. They have to experience. To live and experience life fully because when you create art, if it’s not true and real, you know.
Except most of us have no clue that this is what’s happening between our ears when we create outcome-oriented goals. And one thing’s for certain: without a conscious awareness of the experiences we most want to have, we’re likely to create a version of “success” that weakens us or feels empty. That’s because we’re making the mistake of committing t
... See moreIf I’m going to suffer, it better be for a damn good reason. It better yield me more joy than it costs. If not, I will do anything I can to avoid it, and I advise all my clients to do the same.