Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure

I’m also quite fond of the word “slut.” It’s a big-time pejorative for most people, but not me. I use the word to designate anyone, male or female, who loves sex and brings a healthily sex-positive attitude to his or her erotic activities.

Before proceeding to the next part of our discussion, which takes a system-level look at women’s sexual anatomy, let’s review what we’ve learned so far.

Play and Practice Touching Is for Earthlings, Feeling Is for Martians

It doesn’t mean you’re clueless, especially since what we like changes from day to day and moment to moment, depending on where we are in our cycle, how aroused we are, the time of day, and a multitude of other unpredictable factors.

All the ancient spiritual sexuality traditions considered female ejaculate to be a sacred medicine. Practitioners of ayurveda (the traditional medicine of India) and tantra called it amrita, meaning “the nectar of life.”