When in doubt, look for the fear
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When in doubt, look for the fear
everyone wants to find out if they’re missing out on something they should stop doing.
In ambiguous situations, we all look to others for cues about how to behave.
Whenever I was afraid, it was of about what might happen, not what was happening.
regardless of the story we tell ourselves and others, the lives we have today are most likely a product of answering these three basic questions: What do I do so that I don’t feel uncomfortable? What do I do so that I don’t lose time, energy, or money? What do I do so that I don’t look bad?