suffering from an orgasmic deficiency, whose symptoms include but are not limited to the following: difficulty connecting to other people lack of true intimacy within relationship deficit of sexual turn-on (especially in women) inability to feel sensation or be present in our own bodies disconnection from our own desires underlying sense that somet

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A recent study found that after casual sex, women, on average, report high levels of loneliness, unhappiness, rejection, and regret. Conversely, men report higher satisfaction, happiness, contentment, and mood improvement. 

This is one of a few dynamics where social progress supposedly intended to benefit women instead ended up benefiting men.

we worry about how problematic sex has become with our long-term partner due to mutual resentments over childcare and finances; or about our addiction to internet pornography; or about the fact that we seem to crave sex only with people we don’t love; or about whether, by having had an affair with someone at work, we have irretrievably broken our s

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Bien que cela ne soit pas (encore) scientifiquement prouvée, il y a quelque chose dont je suis absolument certain : la pornographie n’encourage pas à aller vers les filles. C’est un vrai problème dans le monde d’aujourd’hui : les maris, les petits amis et même les célibataires se tournent vers la pornographie plutôt que vers les femmes en chair et

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