As you develop your mental aim, you also need to determine what conversation is currently in your head and how it may need to change. Even when you aren’t paying attention, your internal conversation is always happening.

Our attention is not confined to the sense organs for sight, smell, hearing, tasting, and touch. Our attention is like a sixth organ that can be honed and strengthened like a muscle.7 This is synaesthesia, the synthesis of all the senses as they align and function together to create the organ of attention. We can concentrate our attention like a la

Push yourself to strip away the superficial and get to the root of everything you do. If you truly want to affect people, you better know how to be in touch with yourself and every single one of your drives and vulnerabilities as a human being.

In real life, when you’re talking to your family, friends, or colleagues, your ears should perk up whenever you hear the words “I want,” “I wish,” or “I don’t know.”