Monogamy is a byproduct, not a goal. One of the biggest obstacles guys have with Plate Theory is breaking themselves of this ‘LTR-as-Goal’ mentality. Obviously I’m not anti-monogamy, however monogamy should never be a goal in and of itself; it should be a by-product of Plate Theory, but only when you’ve properly filtered through enough plates to un

The other minor difference here is that men are innately polygamous, not Hypergamous. A man’s imperative is not (necessarily) to get the best woman. It’s unlimited access to unlimited sexuality with as little investment and commitment as possible.