In 2007, I launched four, four-week online Dating Essentials for Men courses. These courses were a compilation of what I had learned through trial and error and a lot of fucking practice. The courses became an instant success because they offered a breath of fresh air from programs that teach men to be cocky/funny, spin plates, or use canned pickup

Women are searching for a man whose reality is more fun and valuable than their own. You must be congruent with the value that you have to offer, and it must be apparent to the room, revealed through a series of distinct demonstrations of high social value. Follow the Three-Second Rule, and you will be in set much more often, resulting in higher so

By demonstrating a willingness to walk or to step up and call bullshit in a fun way, you demonstrate that you are being genuine with her, which creates trust, allowing her to feel safe. This is what girls mean when they say they want a man who can keep it real. A girl needs to feel that she is getting to know the real you—and that takes time.

You can use Game to get some success when cold approaching pretty women, while getting a number to set up a date. But, to be truly effective at Game, then you must also be Red Pill aware. Most PUAs have Game, but not all PUAs are Red Pill aware. Game without any Red Pill awareness is like owning a Ferrari, but without an engine.