Speak with all your heart and search out the goodness of your soul. Find the good points which are within you and cleanse them of all the evil in the soul until you pour out your heart like water before God. This is the way to attain true joy and to subdue the power of fantasy which is the source of all lust and desire. Through this you can acquire

What does it mean to control pleasure? “Indulge yourself in all things permitted to you,” says the Talmud. Do not shun love. Physical desire and pleasure are a great gift; they are both the pathway to and the expression of deeper intimacy. The very first commandment in the Bible is “be fruitful and multiply.” The Jewish tradition does not celebrate

The second mindset, Approach B, is the calm acceptance of whatever Hashem does no matter how uncomfortable it might be. This is the mindset a person should have after the fact, in other words, once the outcome is determined.