
The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage

No. No excuses. No exceptions. No way around it: It’s on you. We don’t have the luxury of running away. Of hiding. Because we have something very specific we’re trying to do. We have an obstacle we have to lean into and transform. No one is coming to save you. And if we’d like to go where we claim we want to go—to accomplish what we claim are our g
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Scratch the complaining. No waffling. No submitting to powerlessness or fear. You can’t just run home to Mommy. How are you going to solve this problem? How are you going to get around the rules that hold you back? Maybe you’ll need to be a little more cunning or conniving than feels comfortable. Sometimes that requires ignoring some outdated regul
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Andy Grove, former CEO of Intel, outlined when he described what happens to businesses in tumultuous times: “Bad companies are destroyed by crisis. Good companies survive them. Great companies are improved by them.”
Holiday, Ryan • The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage
As Francis Bacon once said, nature, in order to be commanded, must be obeyed.
Holiday, Ryan • The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage
Our actions may be impeded… but there can be no impeding our intentions or dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. The mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting. And then he concluded with powerful words destined for maxim. The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.
Holiday, Ryan • The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage
the powers of perception, action, and the will. With this triad, they: First, see clearly. Next, act correctly. Finally, endure and accept the world as it is.
Holiday, Ryan • The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage
But can we acknowledge that anticipated, temporary failure certainly hurts less than catastrophic, permanent failure? Like any good school, learning from failure isn’t free. The tuition is paid in discomfort or loss and having to start over.
Holiday, Ryan • The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage
Our perceptions determine, to an incredibly large degree, what we are and are not capable of. In many ways, they determine reality itself. When we believe in the obstacle more than in the goal, which will inevitably triumph?
Holiday, Ryan • The Obstacle is the Way: The Ancient Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage
Defiance and acceptance come together well in the following principle: There is always a countermove, always an escape or a way through, so there is no reason to get worked up. No one said it would be easy and, of course, the stakes are high, but the path is there for those ready to take it.