We have no boundaries, we are each free to pursue whoever we want, whenever we want, and fall as deeply as the relationship takes us. We recognize where we are in our life, how close we feel, how much time is available, so we don’t enter into relationships when they might negatively impact our primary relationship. —Ilana

People who practice nonmonogamy begin from the same premise: one partner cannot meet all their needs and they may want to have sex or a relationship with someone other than their current partner. But instead of hiding it, they bring this fact out in the open.