The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Timeless Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children
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The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Timeless Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children
The word she taught them was praise. She told them that every day, they must catch each member of the family doing something right, and say so, specifically, positively and thankfully. She did not go into deep explanations, but it was clear what she was doing. She was creating, within each home, an atmosphere of mutual regard and continuous positiv
... See moreParents are tasked with enabling their children to participate, both cognitively and emotionally, in the inexhaustible conversation that is Judaism. To learn Torah is to be reminded in countless ways every day that we have responsibilities and therefore obligations. Through Torah we teach our children to orient their lives not only around what they
... See moreParents teach children how to break a large task into small, manageable units and arrange them in a meaningful order. They teach children problem solving. In terms of personal boundaries, they teach how to negotiate, to say yes to healthful relationships and no to destructive ones. As adults teach rules and skills and right from wrong, children, ov
... See moreSo, the parent must step out of time and place and become the parent this child needs, not the parent that society (and the parent’s ego) dictates. It requires an almost superhuman love, where the parent’s expectations are set aside and the needs of the child are met first. A father wouldn’t insist that a blind child play basketball because all the
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