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The 36 Questions That Lead to Love (Published 2015)
These are questions I made for a friend to ask her love interest, but they were further along and she wanted to understand how she could make him feel loved.
Questions you can ask:
- What are some examples of moments in your life where you felt the most loved, and why? Or deeply held? Or deeply safe? (It's better to ask for concrete examples from the
... See moreDoes he deal with problems head-on, or does he deny them? When troubled, does he become talkative or aloof? Which do you prefer? How do you want to be treated? Tenderly, or do you like it a little rough every now and then? Does he listen to you sympathetically, or does he race ahead to what he thinks is the solution? Do you like to be nurtured when
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For the rest of the interview, specific questions were asked about a range of issues, including advice for choosing a mate; suggestions for how to deal with stressors that affect a couple; ideas to help a young couple considering splitting up; the role of intimacy in a relationship (and how it changes); and their core values and principles for marr
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The QQ10 Method. The two Q’s stand for Quality+Quantity, and the 10 stands for ten days. My hypothesis was that if two people who have decent chemistry commit to ten consecutive days of quality time, then they’ll be able to form the kind of closeness that typically takes months to build.