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Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection
Seek to discover common interests and areas of agreement by focusing more on why than what, more on personal experiences than positions.
There is no quicker way to end a conversation or escalate to conflict than to start spouting facts. In general, facts should not be your first line of defense, even if they are your initial go-to. Research shows p... See more
There is no quicker way to end a conversation or escalate to conflict than to start spouting facts. In general, facts should not be your first line of defense, even if they are your initial go-to. Research shows p... See more
Conversation Tips — Listen First Project
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
Arthur Aron • The 36 Questions That Lead to Love (Published 2015)
good listening requires an open and honest curiosity about the other person, and a willingness and ability to keep the spotlight on them. Buried emotions draw the spotlight back to us.