Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play & Practice

“Doing” really begins with seducing and romancing a person’s mind. Before touching someone’s body, you have to touch his or her mind. If you are not able to do that, you will never be able to give your lover that special pleasure, no matter how well you can touch. Doing someone’s mind really begins with focusing your total attention on that person.

the best, most efficient way to give her such an orgasm is to take control of the nervous system via doing. Her excess energy during this time is the fuel for a great orgasm. The increased genital engorgement she’s experiencing can be thought of as potential orgasm instead of potential pain.

There are many ways we may discover to bring about some sense of energetic openness and well-being in the subtle body. And as it is accessed more and more, this altered body feeling is one that eventually we can ‘remember’ and learn to deliberately recall – to summon by a gentle intention. We can then move, usually gradually, into the focused stead

Staying open and aware—saying yes—is the key to getting off on any stroke, whether in OM or in life. Saying yes is the key to the freedom we were just talking about. When we let go of our preference for any one particular experience, suddenly a whole world of opportunity presents itself. We are not only more able to enjoy the upstrokes, but we can