Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play & Practice
Throughout all schools of tantric gnosticism (Hindu, Buddhist, and in the Western Esoteric tradition), there's an emphasis on learning how to stay present in high sensation. By “high sensation” I mean both intense physical feelings like pain and pleasure—and also intense emotional feelings, like anger, fear, and lust.
Carolyn Elliott • Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't)
This state of relaxed openness to the cosmic flow of life is rare, as our usual condition is a contracted ego state of fear and refusal to surrender our pride and self-will. So we all live in various stages of numbness, unavailable to the full pulsation of our Life Force. And yet, since human beings cannot live without pleasure, we find our pleasur
... See moreEva Pierrakos • The Undefended Self: Living the Pathwork
Throughout most of our lives, we nonconfront much that happens to us. Many people have sex without actually feeling most of the sensation available to them. They wait for the big climax at the end, while remaining unconscious of most other sensations occurring along the way, which they consider to be just foreplay and arousal.
Steve Bodansky • Extended Massive Orgasm, Updated and Illustrated: How you can give and receive intense sexual pleasure (Positively Sexual)
Sadly, most of us turn ourselves off. We have a quite narrow range of “strokes” that we're willing to get off on in our day. Someone is super nice to us? Turn-on. We get a big unexpected gift of money? Turn-on. The sun is shining? Turn-on. Someone is rude to us? Turn-off. Grey, cold, drizzly day? Turn-off. Low bank account? Turn-off. The game and t
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