If we are being sincere and honest with ourselves, there is an intuitive sense of what we are avoiding. If we can find the capacity to be honest, we’ll start to feel in ourselves when we’re being called to make effort.

Happiness never comes through answers. It comes only when we’re so tired of answers, that we just decide to live the questions fully. Our life radiates the answers and finally we can relax and be of the deepest service to the world.

Trying to live someone else's life, or to live by an abstract norm, will invariably fail-and may even do great damage.Vocation,

heroic individualism: an ongoing game of one-upmanship, against both yourself and others, paired with the limiting belief that measurable achievement is the only arbiter of success. Even if you do a good job hiding it on the outside, with heroic individualism you chronically feel like you never quite reach the finish line that is lasting fulfillmen