Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm
Mind-blowing, soul-healing, life-changing sex begins with an intentional, detailed preparation to create something special for both of you. And yes, there is an art to it. How you prepare yourself and your lover for sex is as important as the sex itself, if not more so. It is in this meticulous space of creation that your devotion and generosity ca
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Sexually, allow yourself to surrender so fully that you feel “fucked” in your deepest parts, physically and emotionally. Allow your heart to be ravished by a force of love much larger than the penis of your man or the details of your relationship. When both you and your man let go completely during sex—while he practices invading you with conscious
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addition to leading artful lovemaking into more energetic agility for both of you, it’s beneficial to let go of any notion of completion in sex altogether. Let go of orgasm being the end-all goal for either of you. Make connection, pleasure, depth, and love your intention—not just getting off. The irony here is that when all the pressure is removed
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energy builds in your genitals during sex, exhale and contract the floor of your pelvis, pulling upward slightly, as if you were trying to stop yourself from urinating. Feel or imagine your sexual energy moving up along the line of your spine into your head as you exhale. Then, as you inhale, draw the energy down the front of your body, so that you
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