
Opening Up: A Guide To Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

We do not allow our sexual choices to have an unnecessary impact on those who have not consented to participate. We are respectful of others’ feelings, and when we aren’t sure how someone feels, we ask. Ethical sluts recognize the difference between things they can and should control, and things they can’t. While we sometimes may feel jealous or te
... See moreJanet W. Hardy • The Ethical Slut, Second Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Adventures
marriage might just involve finding and refinding our own balance between boredom and jealousy, safety and danger.
Ada Calhoun • Wedding Toasts I'll Never Give
when the big stuff comes up, ask your partner if she or he is willing to join you as an equal partner on a learning journey. If the answer is yes, you join together in a relationship of true possibility. If she or he is more committed to being right than to actual, real intimacy, the answer will be something other than yes. Then you must move on, a
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