Non-violent Communication in Communities
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Non-violent Communication in Communities
When hijacked by this primitive pattern, we’re just perpetuating the same zero-sum “kill or be killed” game, even though we’re nowhere near mortal danger. While it may seem beneficial in the short term, this approach sows seeds of future casualties on both sides. It kills our peace of mind. It robs us of the opportunity to experience the deeply rew
... See moreChoosing not to deliver a difficult message is like hanging on to a hand grenade once you’ve pulled the pin.
Pensemos en una escena habitual que he presenciado infinidad de veces. En una reunión, un colega del trabajo menosprecia un proyecto que tú estás liderando. Por instinto, contraatacas con un comentario que los socava tanto a él como a su trabajo. No has elegido de manera consciente responder, simplemente lo has hecho. Sin ni siquiera ser consciente
... See moreThe intention behind the protective use of force is to prevent injury or injustice. The intention behind the punitive use of force is to cause individuals to suffer for their perceived misdeeds.