No Part Of Yourself Is Unworthy.
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No Part Of Yourself Is Unworthy.
Indeed, your world can break down precisely because you live on after the death of everything you love. This “death” can be much more painful and fearful than the prospect of your own death, not least because it is a death that you have to survive. Hence, as long as you are attached to someone or something that you can lose, you are susceptible to
... See moreI used to think (well, okay, sometimes I still do) that the less I showed up, the less it would hurt when I lost everything. When people I loved died. When things fell apart.
The process of becoming yourself is not a corporate desk job, and it is not homework, and it is not an unticked box languishing on a to-do list. You do not have to treat your flaws like action items that must be systematically targeted and eliminated in order to receive a return on investment. You have no supervisor; you should not be punished when
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