
love is an allowing

Bondage to others, self-denial, sacrifice, strife, struggle, starvation and scarcity are not the way of Limitless Love.
Ceanne DeRohan • Right Use of Will: Healing and Evolving the Emotional Body
In true love, we must have trust and confidence in each other. This is a practice not of spontaneous feeling, but of concrete daily observations of ourselves and of each other.
Sister Dang Nghiem • Mindfulness as Medicine: A Story of Healing Body and Spirit
We have boundaries but have erected no barrier,
David Richo • How to Be an Adult in Love: Letting Love in Safely and Showing It Recklessly
You can choose to feel the hurt and practice to stay open. Instead of closing in anger, allow yourself to feel your deep sorrow, your raw yearning, the wounding slashes of your lover’s anger, and practice opening. By staying open, the cycle is broken, and your love awaits your lover’s readiness to open.