love is an allowing

This also applies to the relationships in your life. “I’m with this person. I’m with her today; that is beautiful. But I don’t own her. If she’s here, she’s here; if she’s not here, she’s not here. I’m not her jailer.” If you give people space, they usually stay forever.

Though he may not like the limits, if he has a good heart, he will submit to the limits and begin to grow up in his own boundaries.

And it is difficult to keep someone out of your heart who has invaded your body.

Having your own bad, immature, and broken parts open to the scrutiny of that person Solving conflict in ways that do not involve leaving the relationship Staying in the relationship even if the other person changes for the worse Being called to sacrifice many individual preferences for the sake of the relationship