Intimacy, Emotional Baggage, Relationship Longevity, and More – Esther Perel on The Tim Ferriss Show
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Intimacy, Emotional Baggage, Relationship Longevity, and More – Esther Perel on The Tim Ferriss Show
In a world where so many long-term relationships suffer much more from monotony and habituation than from unsettling feelings like jealousy, this erotic wrath may serve a purpose, if we are willing to bear the attendant vulnerability.
Esther Perel • The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity - a book for anyone who has ever loved
relationships, we find value in applying that lens to our marriage. Being aware of how the other person feels, allowing each other time to speak and share ideas, and prioritizing a relationship in which each partner feels safe to take risks has helped us create a marriage and a life more rewarding and abundant than we have ever experienced before.
Bob Gower • Radical Alignment: How to Have Game-Changing Conversations That Will Transform Your Business and Your Life
if you want a relationship to last a long time, somehow you have to keep the scar tissue from building up. And that's really hard. So, when there's an issue, you somehow have to resolve it where there is zero lingering animosity. Nobody is even a little bit upset. Because even a little upset, that scar tissue that accumulates, that never goes away
Talk Given by John Ousterhout About Sustaining Relationships
Would there not therefore be a certain wisdom in redrawing our expectations, depathologizing and destigmatizing our so-called ‘failures’ and sometimes just turning over to the other side of the bed, ready to accept without rancour, with stoic calm, some of the necessary compromises of long-term love?