Extended Massive Orgasm, Updated and Illustrated: How you can give and receive intense sexual pleasure (Positively Sexual)

The next step is to redirect your attention. Learn to feel your partner more than your own sensations during sex. Rather than curling attention into yourself and feeling the pleasures moving in your own body, feel outward, into, and through your partner. Feel your partner more than you feel yourself. Feel her movement, her moans, and her internal e

To realize the full potential of sex, you must learn how to recondition your body and nervous system. You must learn how to unhabitualize the mechanics of your ejaculation, and convert your orgasm into a massive profusion of energy which deepens, not ends, the lovemaking session.

The bottom line is this: If ejaculation is not completely a matter of conscious choice for you, your woman knows she controls you sexually. And as long as she knows she’s in charge, she won’t trust you enough to relax fully in the force of your loving. She will always keep her heart somewhat protected.

keep your attention on your partner’s genitals and watch for signs of orgasm there. Are her labia swelling and getting darker? Is her pussy more lubricated? Can you see her genitals contracting or vibrating? These are all signs that “you’re doing it right.”